“For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” (Ephesians 3:14-21, ESV)
Today we start our forty days of prayer. We begin a journey of preparation of our hearts for the coming of Jesus. This is a step toward advent, which officially begins in a couple of weeks.
Interestingly enough the Celtic church has always held a forty day advent, just like a forty day lent. They recognised that Jesus incarnation is at least as important as his death and resurrection; some would argue more so. It is important because in Jesus’s incarnation, everything else was decided. The purpose of the incarnation was to bring reconciliation, which included but is not limited to Jesus’s death and resurrection. The life that Jesus lead is intricately linked with the death that Jesus died.
So we prepare for the incarnation, not just a celebration of Jesus’s birth in Bethlehem so long ago, but also his incarnation in each of us. After all, Paul tells us that the life we now have is none other than the life of Christ.
“And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience— among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind. But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.” (Ephesians 2:1-7, ESV)
We were dead, but God has made us alive in Christ. Alive through his death and resurrection. So when Jesus calls us to pick up our cross and follow him, he is calling us to give up our own lives and live the life he lived.
Now, Paul writes this letter to the church in Ephesus, with which he was very familiar. Paul spent over two years there on his second missionary journey, teaching the people, proclaiming the gospel, and leading people into closer fellowship with God and one another.
In fact, Paul had such an impact in that community that those who sold statues of the Greek goddess Artemis began to lose money.
In Ephesus there was this temple to Artemis, who was the goddess of fertility and abundance. When you wanted success in your business, you gave an offering to Artemis. When you wanted an abundant harvest, you prayed before her statue in your home every morning and evening. When you wanted life to go well, you visited her temple and engaged with the prostitutes who served there.
The temple that existed in Ephesus was one of the seven ancient wonders of the world, and people from all over came to visit it. While they were there, they would purchase a little statue to take home with them, something like we would purchase as a souvenir. Well, Paul’s preaching had converted so many people that they were no longer buying these little statues. Demetrius got everyone riled up against Paul and the believers and led a riot into the theatre. They were there for over two hours crying out, “Great is Artemis of the Ephesians!”
This theatre holds over 24,000 people.
Now Paul is in prison in Rome, and he is writing back to these people. He is hoping that they will be able to hold fast to the message that he gave them. He encourages them to continue to grow in their devotion to God and Jesus. And he prays for them.
“For this reason I bow my knees before the Father,” (Ephesians 3:14, ESV)
Paul is praying for them because of what God has done for them in Jesus.
“For through him we both have access in one Spirit to the Father. So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the cornerstone, in whom the whole structure, being joined together, grows into a holy temple in the Lord. In him you also are being built together into a dwelling place for God by the Spirit.” (Ephesians 2:18-22, ESV)
Paul prays for these people because God is at work in them. Paul is praying for them because of what God has done for him in Jesus.
“This was according to the eternal purpose that he has realized in Christ Jesus our Lord, in whom we have boldness and access with confidence through our faith in him. So I ask you not to lose heart over what I am suffering for you, which is your glory. ” (Ephesians 3:11-13, ESV)
Why does Paul pray?
Because he can.
He prays because in Jesus he now has boldness to approach the Father, and confidence that he will be heard. He prays because Jesus has made a way to the Father through his life, death, and resurrection. Paul prays because of Jesus.
The Heidelberg Catechism, in Lord’s Day 45 asks the question, “Why do Christians need to pray?”
This may seem like a strange question, one which we do not think about too much, but how we answer this question determines our prayer life.
“Q: Why do Christians need to pray?”
“A: Because prayer is the most important part of the thankfulness God requires of us.”
Thankfulness is something God requires of us. How can you be required to give thanks? If someone forces you to say, “Thank-you” are you really grateful? Shouldn’t our thanks be open and not coerced?
For the past few weeks we have been trying to teach our one year old daughter, to say thank-you after she eats. Normally we all say a prayer of thanks after the meal, “Lord thank-you for this food and drink. Amen.” This, however, is a bit too difficult for her so we simply ask that she say “thank-you.”
This has got to be the hardest thing to do. For some reason she just refuses. She knows how to say it, because she does it sometimes, and she knows exactly what we want her to say, because she gets this goofy little grin on her face, but she simply refuses.
Teaching thanksgiving has got to be one of the most difficult things to do. It just does not seem to come naturally. It seems like the last thing we want to do when we get something from someone, is to say, “Thank-you.” However, in order to truly understand the nature of the gift, we have to say it. If we don’t then we do not acknowledge that it is a gift, and we can pretend that we earned it, or that we deserved it, or that it was our right to expect it.
But our salvation through Jesus is sheer gift, pure grace, and to refuse to say “thanks” is refusing to acknowledge that gift.
“Q: Why do Christians need to pray?
“A: Because prayer is the most important part of the thankfulness that God requires of us. And also because God gives his grace and Holy Spirit only to those who pray continually and groan inwardly, asking God for these gifts and thanking him for them.”
We pray, not only to thank God for what he has already done, but to beg him to continue his work in us.
Look at Paul’s prayer for the Ephesians.
“I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith.” (Ephesians 3:16-17a, NIV)
So that Christ may dwell in their hearts?
Who is Paul writing this letter to again?
“Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, To the saints in Ephesus, the faithful in Christ Jesus:” (Ephesians 1:1, NIV)
Paul is writing to believers. So doesn’t Christ already dwell in their hearts? How could Paul pray that they may be strengthened so that Christ could dwell in their hearts?
The Greek word translated “dwell” here is κατοικέω. This is a combination of the word οικέω, which means to live, build, or inhabit, and the preposition κατά, which gives the sense of motion down against, toward, or into. Paul is saying there is more to being a Christian than simply praying the “sinner’s prayer” and being saved. Being a Christian is about the life of Christ being more and more obvious in your life. Being a Christian is about Jesus coming to live down in our hearts.
This is about God building a place to live within us.
Our next door neighbour recently sold her house and moved, and we will have new neighbours moving in shortly. When they move in, they will begin to do things to the house to make it theirs. They may do some small things, like move the flowers around in the beds, trim the trees, and hang some pictures. They may do some bigger things like paint the rooms and rebuild the back deck. They may even do some major renovations, like tear down a few walls or build an addition on the back of the house. Whatever they do, they will be changing the house to make it a place to live in.
They will be changing the house to a home.
Naturally, when Jesus moves into our hearts he does not find the house in good repair. If we are truly honest with ourselves we have to realise that without God we are pretty hopeless. When we pray we have to be willing to be open and honest about our situation. No point in trying to put on a good show and pretend like everything is good.
The Catechism puts it this way.
“Q: How does God want us to pray so that he will listen to us?”
“A: First, we must pray from the heart to no other than the one true God, who has revealed himself in his Word, asking for everything he has commanded us to ask for.”
Basically, we need to be sincere. No spouting off meaningless phrases. If you don’t mean it, don’t say it.
“Second, we must acknowledge our need and misery, hiding nothing, and humble ourselves in his majestic presence.”
It is only in a true acknowledgement of who we are apart from Christ can we even begin to understand who we are with Christ. This is why Paul prays that the Ephesians would be able to not only have Christ dwell more fully within them, but also that they would realise just how awesome it is that Christ lives in them.
“And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.” (Ephesians 3:17b-19, NIV)
Being rooted and established in love, I pray that you would be able to grasp just how wide, and long, and high, and deep, is the love of Christ. A love that surpasses knowledge. Paul prays that they would not only be rooted and established in the love of Christ, but also filled with it. Filled with the measure of all the fullness of God.
With that, Paul bursts into praise.
“Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. ” (Ephesians 3:20-21, NIV)
After Paul writes this letter, he sends it off with someone to bring it to Ephesus and read it to the believers as they gather together. There they sit in someone’s home, or some other place, listening to this prayer that Paul prays over them. Sitting in a city overshadowed with a temple to Artemis, who people claim is the source of all goodness, who people claim gives fertility, success, enjoyment to life.
They hear these words of Paul saying, “No, success and goodness, and life, do not come from Artemis. This all comes from God. A God who has reconciled you to himself and one another. A God who can do so much more than we could ever ask or imagine. A God whose power is at work within us. A God who gives us comfort in the assurance that we belong to Christ. A God who has done incredible things for us, and will do so much more.
Why do we pray?
Because we can.
As the Catechism puts it.
“Third, we must rest on this unshakeable foundation: even though we do not deserve it, God will surely listen to our prayer because of Christ our Lord. That is what he promised us in his Word.”
The question is not really “Why pray?” but rather “Why not?”
If we have an all powerful Father, who desperately wants to have a relationship with us. If we have the assurance that through Christ we have been reconciled to the Father. If God can, and will, respond to our prayers; then why not?
Not only can God do all that we ask, but he can do more. Not only can God do more than we ask, he can do immeasurably more. Not only can God do immeasurably more than we can ask, he can do immeasurably more than we could ever ask or imagine.
May you, over the next forty days, give yourselves in prayer to God.
May you experience the closeness that comes from developing a relationship with him.
May you experience the grace of God as he pours out his Spirit on you.
